Sure, I'm seeing my father again, for the first time, after 10 long years.
Sure, it's a big deal.
But this is the time to say: it was my mother who raised me and put herself through hell to keep our lives running, while he wasn't around.
It is my mother who always put effort into avoiding speaking ill about him, to give me a great impression of my father, growing up.
Sure, I've had to tweak and manipulate my mind to adjust to a 'new' concept of family through the years. It's worked out just fine, but it wasn't easy.
Sure, I love my father and my step-father I love him a lot, but it is my mother who is worth more than anything. It is she, and not a man, who will walk me down the aisle for my wedding march.
Sure, I'm the daughter of. Get over it, we are all daughters/sons of someones.
Sure, I have my own life to live, my own name to build, and my own burdens to worry about.
But someone's gotta begin the process of resolving unfinished business.
Life is just too damn short to be so angry all the time.
  | i agree. we all saw how your mom raised you or at least the idea of it.
in Gods own time everything will be alright and yeah life's too short to be so angry all the time.
cheer up, life is beautiful
Xx |
 | calidude99 wrote on Aug 2, '06, edited on Aug 2, '06 best of luck kace.
I hope he feels your pains and does the right thing to erase them :)
He cannot erase the past but he can surely fix the future. :) |
Comment deleted at the request of the author.  | roewy56 wrote on Aug 2, '06, edited on Aug 4, '06 LIFE is too SHORT.
make the BEST of it...
solve unfinished businesses...
(:
your words said A LOT. :-)
you've managed to keep your head up high and at times you fall, but you get up and manage to pull yourself back together. and i look up to you for that. i also look up to your mom, becos she did an awesome job on raising you into what you are now. i've been living on this twisted world for the past 15 years, and i look up to people such as yourself and your mom. :-)
you cannot erase the past, but you sure can fix the future. (:
enjoy your stay na lang with him, make the BEST of it.
and smile ateng k!
[♥]
karls.
this blog of yours really touched me, which makes me even look up to you more. :)
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 | I visit your site every chance I get, but it's just now that i mustered enough guts to write. I wish you all the happiness and success in the world. You grew up to be such a wonderful person even without the father figure to look-up at for awhile. The love and honor you have for you mom is such an inspiration. Be well and be happy! (-: |
 | i was a fan of your mom and father when you were born...
i was a great fan of your mom when your were growing up...
i saw it from afar, while you were growing up, how great your mom was, and how i dreamt to be a mom like her...
from afar, i saw her pains, her struggles, her triumphs...
i still see it from afar, how great a daughter you are and how great a mom is your mom...
What goes on around and again,
Does come back again and around
Good or bad, it's all our choice,
For all our thoughts and acts today,
Are investments in the big game plan
Of this unfinished business of life....
.....h. harvey |
 | colsp wrote on Aug 2, '06 hi kace!hope ul enjoy ur vacation in california...sana visit ka dito sa L.A---go to disneyland hehehe then check mo ko sa clinic ha?heheheanyways...enjoy girl!!!u truly deserve it:) |
Comment deleted at the request of the author.  | I have always believed that what you said in the PH care commercial (my mother raised me well!) was and is very very true. I am an avid fan of your site and check in daily for anything new. This one hits the spot. I could not stop crying. Your mother must be so proud to have raised someone as wonderful as you! |
 | i wish you luck kace.im sure you'll be alright.;) You've grown into a wonderful woman. He must be hella proud and lucky, he didn't even lift a finger to have an amazing daughter like you. :) mwah!! see ya. |
Comment deleted at the request of the author.  | ei...t'kace... im sure your father is damn proud of you!!! I hope you'll enjoy your vacation with him... YOu rock, kace!!! and I do agree that you owe it all from your brilliant mom.. :) inform some happenings that you had with yah father... Take Care :) *mwah* |
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Wow, I'm so moved. This is such an honest, candid and heartfelt post. Indeed, your commercial line said it best, YOUR MOM RAISED YOU WELL!
Still, hope you enjoy your reunion with your dad...
You have just echoed what our Lady Madge once said...
"Life is too short to be bitter!"
God Bless!
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 | haaay naku sis!! i've always known you to be very strong.. and very forgiving.. thats what differenciates you from the rest of the "showbiz brot up kids.." u are truly HUMAN, u allow urself to trip, and sometimes fall flat, but no matter what, you always manage to pickurself up and dust it off with a big smile on ur face as always! =)
usually its the excess baggage that keep us from being happy when in reality it shouldnt..
as frou frou said "let go, coz there's beauty in the breakdown!" |
 | we may not know each other personally, but i olweiz admire the way u carry urself..i can see how strong u are, 2 face everything..if im just ur friend close to you..i will hug you & say "Kya mo yan!"..& ur definitelt ryt..Life is too short.. So, let's just live it to the fullest & have, not some, but more fun!! :) |
 | hey bebe!
long time no talk! :-) *hugz* I heart you girl. Everything will be fine. I know it will be. You're strong and beautiful. Kaya mo yan! hahaha... Best of luck bebe! *mwah* Love that artistic pic btw. :-D |
 | wickedtin wrote on Aug 3, '06, edited on Aug 3, '06 wow. nice. (similar to lea's entry about her dad, nice also)
if only the rest of the world could be more like you and realize all the beauty life has to offer, to dwell on positive suff and not harbor anger and hatred.
you're very lucky to be the kind of person that you are. and i don't just mean all the fame and fortune you've been born into, but someone who's got a great head and heart, a great attitude. basta. such a beautiful person. your family, friends and fans are lucky to have you. i've also admired your mom more through you, how she raised you.
oh and thanks, you gave me an idea! i want my mom to walk me down the aisle, too -- if she'll agree, kasi baka super umiyak sya! for most of my life, she's both my mom and dad bec my dad died of cancer when i turned 2. super hanga din ako sa mom ko for that.
oh yeah, enjoy your visit with your dad! =) |
| gikagik wrote on Aug 3, '06, edited on Aug 3, '06 sap. this entry is just the icing on the cake. kasi if people read all your interviews in all the magazines or your articles isa lang ang conclusion ng lahat...ang galing ng pagpapalaki ng mama mo sayo! the way you carry yourself, your outlook in life...it all reflects on how well your mama has raised you.
you would make any mother proud to have you as a daughter. your mama must be so proud of you....i know i am! :-)
love kita, alam mo? |
 | marce143 wrote on Aug 3, '06, edited on Aug 3, '06 A very honest thought indeed...good luck and you're so right "your Mom raised you right" that's why she's so proud of everything you do...Love your Daddy Kiko more he seems to be so proud of you as well...Take care and more power... |
 | ur still lucky kc kilala mo dad mo and nakikita mo....may mga tao na di nila kilala or nakita since pinanganak sila...... wishing kahit na picture lng sana...... |
 | very well said kace,i'm sure naiyak mama mo nung binasa to.mabait kang bata at mabuti kang tao.be happy always ok,lam mo nman dito lang kme. |
 | agoti wrote on Aug 4, '06 Hey bebe
Your mother is as proud of you as you are of her. You have grown to be a very mature woman whose feet are definitely planted on the ground. Your mom raised you well!
Leche, pinaiyak mo ako. :-)
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 | bigsis222 wrote on Aug 4, '06, edited on Aug 4, '06 |
 | i can relate. but unlike you i can't seem to resolve this unfinished business of mine. For me my father has become a stranger with whom i cannot relate to. |
 | oh Kace! We are so damn proud of you! and we will love you and your family forever! |
 | kooki wrote on Aug 4, '06  i can relate. but unlike you i can't seem to resolve this unfinished business of mine. For me my father has become a stranger with whom i cannot relate to. 
eh. let things fall into place at the right time. chee-cah. and some things ya just cant resolve hence ambiguous endings. hay.
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| kooki wrote on Aug 4, '06
i'm reading allllll your messages. shit na-e-emo nanaman ako ano ba?! haha. hayup. thanks guys.
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 | Kace,
I've always been so proud of what you have become - a beautiful person inside and out. This entry is a wonderful tribute to your mama.You make all your mama's friends proud! I love you Kace.
Naiyak din kami ni Tito Jo! |
 | OBLADI OBLADA LIFE GOES ON, BRA! LALALALA LIFE GOES ON! :) |
 | hi kace! i was so touched and moved by your entry. i even cried. i salute your mom for raising you to be a wonderful and fine lady. i salute you for just being you. so true to yourself! good luck and God bless.
yeah life is too damn short. live life to the fullest. go girl!
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 | I dedicated "Good Mother" by Jann Arden to you.
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 | Your mom raised you well.:)
we all know that.
Life is just too damn short to be so angry all the time.
^ i can't agree more.
i want to say the same thing camille did.:) and yah, make the most out your time spend with him..you can't fix your past but you can fix the future.:) |
Comment deleted at the request of the author.  | maping wrote on Aug 4, '06, edited on Aug 4, '06 Wow! This is a very touching post. You are a beautiful person inside and out. Kahanga hanga ka..Hats off to your mom =) Lots and lots of good vibes to you! |
 | Your words are very honest and profound...I agree with everyone who has posted a reply before me - your mom has raised you very well! I am sure she is helluva proud of you :o)
I think you should publish a book..you write very well and I am sure a lot of people can learn from you and be inspired by your writings....no sugar coating, just "THE REAL DEAL"
Take care and good luck
Ingrid :o) |
 | An excellent, excellent post. Bravo to you. And to your mom! |
Comment deleted at the request of the author.  | This is one of the most sincere posts I have ever read. Your heart is one in a million! I hope someday my children will have that same perspective in life. I, like your mother once had struggled and raised my children on my own. The only difference is that I have 4 of them. I wrote you once and told you that I am an avid fan of your mother. This is the reason why…
For KC, her first born from her first marriage, she writes: “My Kristina, I didn’t think it was possible, but I love you even more now than at any other time in your life . . . You will never know how much I love you, what I wish I could have given you, what I wish I could take away.”
How I long to say these words also to my children….
Take Care always and God Bless!!!!
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| Hey there, baby. It's Mama. Thank you so very much for your post. One of the loveliest I've ever read in all my life. I wish I could shout it out to the whole wide world!..You have always been, and always will be, my number one...my panganay...my beloved "Ate"...You made me cry buckets, and right now I don't wish to be anyone else, anywhere else.... I love you so, so, so, so much...and I miss you terribly.... I love you, Toot.... Don't forget to pray everyday, okay? I can't wait to see you again! Take good care, anak. Am sure your Pa and stepmom will see the beauty of your heart and soul....Give them my regards (am still a little bit jealous :-) but heck, YOU LOVE ME!!!! Sent you a text message a while ago. Talk to you soon. Thanks ever so much, my baby.... way to go Mega! And God bless you Kace! We love you! |
 | sensibleme wrote on Aug 4, '06, edited on Aug 4, '06 Hi kace. You don't know me but i've been following and reading all your messages here in multiply almost everyday if not everday. This is my first time to post coz i really can't help it. This is your most candid and honest to goodness post ever. I feel it really came from your heart and i admire you most for your honesty and sharing a bit of your emotion. Like everybody said, your mom raised you very well. Bravo to your mom for raising an amazing girl. Have fun and enjoy your stay with your father. Goodluck. Take care. |
Comment deleted at the request of the author.  | You are a wonderful person Kace!!! Nakakaiyak talaga itong post na to!!! |
Comment deleted at the request of the author.  | your mom raised you well indeed! =) |
 | Well put, Kace. You couldn't have said it better! You must be a strong and wise person to figure those things out! Not only do I admire your mom more, but I've also turned into one of your fans now. Life is tough, but you seem to have the tools to take on anything thrown your way. How inspiring! A new hero emerges :) |
 | Hey, Toot -- Momsy again... I think you ought to really write a book soon. I don't mean about our "family-family-you-know-what" -- no "gory details" cause we're decent, right?! But really --- e-mail or let's talk lengthily about it when you get home. Let's not waste one of God's best gifts to you. You can make it like a journal thingy or you can just write about your experiences of living in Paris (away from my loving arms!!! Hahaha!) --- you can even write about (some lang ha) some of our disagreements and how we resolved them, etc.. If you decide to do it at all, though, make sure to keep in mind you are writing it not just for yourself, but for others to hopefully pick something good and positive up from. That'll guide you and it'll just flow. I'm starting on mine now with Tita Baby and Tito Ton. No pala --- it's more accurate to say I'm "trying" to start on my life story but school and work and the little girls are killing me (the schedule and the stress and the fatigue, I mean. Coming at me from all angles. Am just starting to get adjusted and working on devising a sort of schedule with Dad -- you know he's great at that and I'm the worst at handling 'new' stress (you know, the kind I'm not used to which is only work stress. At tapos na ang 'lablayp-emotional' stress like the kind between my twenties to thirty (exacto ba? Nyahaha!), so ito naman ang pumalit. Buisit.) Heck -- I'm so proud of you. And why am I e-mailing you here for everyone to see? Baka one of the last few na ito for public consumption. You know that opening my e-mail is one of my least favorite activities (like talking on the phone and having it beside me kaya nililibing ko sa ilalim ng bag otherwise wala na akong gagawin kundi magbasa ng text messages or makipagusap. You know I can stand texting but am tamad. And I cannot stand talking on the phone!!! Except with you (but you feel pa rin I'm not comfy, no?)! But I'll have to open the private addy e-mail box soon (does your Mama Lea have it na? Big Sis, am texting it to you ASAP, okay?). All I ever open these days is my e-mail that is just for school. Hey have you checked out my school's website already like I asked you in my text message to do? www.upou.org. Mm-k? You've got my password and stuff, right? So you can actually go into my 'classrooms' and read my postings on the discussion boards (Go to the Philo 173 class, bebe. I'm crazy about it.). Thought I wrote well -- but turns out I raised an Austen (like, Jane)! No na -- Jhumpa Lahiri na lang. I have her books. Boston-based (not sure if I spelled her first name correctly. Go check her books out on Amazon or something). More contemporary. Seriously, Angelina Jolie's book ("Notes from My Travels") that you borrowed from me (keep it -- I got myself another copy.)? You can do something as simple as that. None of 'em "hifalutin'" stuff. Just straight from the heart, and factual. Whatever. I'll be behind you and make sure it gets published (Yeah! Hahaha!). Just do it as soon as you can (meaning AFTER HOMEWORK, REVIEWING FOR EXAMS, ETC.!!! SCHOOL FIRST!!!! ALMOST DONE!!! NEARING THE FINISH LINE NOW!!! YEY!!!), because this time in your life is never coming back! Okey-dokey. (Okidoks.) Gotta go, mango. And what is this I've gotten myself into? Is everyone gonna know my e-mail addy now? Oh, no! You know naman Mom's low-tech (Mom's computer-tanga). UUUUYYYY! ALMOST FORGOT! YOU'LL BE SOOOO PROUD OF ME! I'VE BEEN USING AN I-POD FOR ABOUT A MONTH NA! HAHAHA! Finally! I want another one just for my audio books. I also want a smaller G4. Tita Tina I.(tititini) thinks I'm crazy! Cause then I'll have all three sizes. Nyahahahaha! Dad's kasi is cute and this is so heavy (and they haven't found my never-used 17" can you believe it?). Nah -- I think I'll just keep this and use my SONY Vaio. That way I'll have both Mac and Windows. Oh, we're in the probinsya home now. They've been here since morning. I arrived tonight. Yellie and Kakie kiss the tv screen sometimes (when we allow them to watch TV at all) when your ad comes out. Oh, and on my way here tonight? I saw this huge billboard with a close-up of a beautiful girl in South Super...then I realized (sabay sigaw!) "AYYYY!!!!! ANAK KO PALA YON!!!! ANG GANDA NG ANAK KO S___________T!!!!!" Sila Nelson were natawa yata. Hahaha! I love the one with your windblown skirt (three basketball courts pala ang size ng palda mo pa lang ha. ARM told me kanina! The whole things covers like fifteen stories of that building or something!) but I LOOOOVVVVE the one on South Super, your close-up. Had to look twice, thrice! Confirmed it when I saw the phcare logo and bottle. Hahaha!!! Can't wait to see you. Your plane ticket fine now? E-mail me on our private, okay? I love you more than life itself (and I want a big, tight, long hug when you get home. And no more saying 'no' and running away when I say I want to kiss your kili. Nyahahahaha!!!!!!!! Love you toot. (Bring me again please fig jam for my cambozola ang roquefort okay? Not the fresh kind cause that's gonna spoil fast again! Dried figs too, please! And if you manage to, can you make a quick stop at Fauchon and get me super dark (about 50%) but not too bitter dark chocs. please? Will pay you back (oo, may dagdag pa doncha wori ano?!). Tek kerr. Say a prayer but find a quiet place muna para hindi ka "look at the bird!" while you're praying (hahaha!). Love, love, love you, tutti. Mama. |
| Cams, my Princess T! It's "Tita Mariel" baby!!! Hahaha! Glad you and Kace are in touch. You look all grown-up and sexy (pero decent pa rin! Hey -- tama na yan pag sumobra pa pagka-sexy mo baka ma-shock ako!)! Hope to see you real soon. Take care and give my love to your parents and lolo John. :-) Love, Tita Shawie. |
| Hey, sharonians! Love you all! Thanks for keeping us all in your thoughts. Hope to see you all soon! Mwah! God bless you! |
| Oh, no... I'm gonna change my e-mail addy cause I saw when I wrote a reply that it forwards replies to it! Nyaaaaaaaaaa!!! Noooooooooooo!!! Doing it tonight! Will e-mail you from there! Tina, Gik, other friends, will send you my new one ASAP okay? From now on let's ignore s.tink......you know what! Tangengot ko talaga sa ganito! Kaya libro best friend ko eh! Thank you to you all who are planning to (or have you already?) e-mail me if you know my e-mail address na. But as much as I'd want to, talagang I cannot keep up with replying cause I need more than 24 hours in a day and God won't give it to me so I can't reply unless you are a close friend or family member. Please understand and don't take it against me! Anak ko nga minsan e-mails me through Kiko na lang and he has to print it out for me cause I have no time (or am so tamad) to open my e-mail! Mwah! Thanks! Love you all and God bless you! (That's it Kristine I'm sticking to private! Hahaha!) |
Comment deleted at the request of the author.  | jpm68 wrote on Aug 5, '06 Hello KC! You don't know me but I feel like I've 'known' you all your life. *smile* Oh wait, we did meet once...back in 1990 (you were only 5 then, I think) when your mom held a concert here in Toronto. I still have the photo with you and your mom that she sent me Christmas '90. What a cutie!
Anyway, I just wanted to wish you all the best. May God continue to bless you and give you the strength to face the challenges that come your way. You and your mom are lucky to have each other.
"Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out." ~Art Linkletter |
 | yan27 wrote on Aug 5, '06 Hi Kaycee! This is so far the most oh-so-touching blog I've ever read on multiply.You write so well just like your mom. You are a very passionate writer.Sure, your mom is the proudest mom on earth.
The song "If I could" reminds me of you and your mom.This song reflects her unquestionable love for you.
You deserve to be happy.Continue with your faith and live the life that you were born to live.
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 | OMG! I've been crying, dahil dito sa pinost mo..Grabe!!! can't get over it...Mahal na mahal ka talaga ng mama mo....Love you Drew:-) take care... |
 | hi kace, your mom is so blessed to have you as her daughter, your so kind and well raised by your mom, always remeber na nandito kami (angels) lagi para sayo. |
 | cant help reply. *absorb absorb.
u got a pure brave heart. |
| atttttenng k!
i watched MaMMia Mia today sa Mandalay Bay, and you popped into my head when i was watching it!! her story was quite a bit like yours! except she had 3 fathers, and she didn't know who was the real one.
and she was going to get married..and she wanted her father to march her down the aisle. but then, she realized that it didn't matter if she had a father or not...she wanted her mother to walk her down the aisle!!!
i loovvvvvvveeed iiittt!!!
just had to share. :-)
take care [♥] |
| hahahha. so cutey naman the replies of mega. :) |
| wickedtin wrote on Aug 6, '06, edited on Aug 6, '06 nakakaaliw your mom's replies!!! :D you're both so lucky to have the mom-daughter relationship that you have. nakakainggit, hehe. very inspiring!
AND i really do hope you go with your mom's suggestion of writing a book. that would be so beautiful.
ms. Sharon, thank you for sharing your wonderful replies here. =) i know you said you're sticking to private nalang, but sana there'll be a few more every now and then, hehe! and congratulations, you've brought such a beautiful lady into this world. i'm sure Kakie and Miel will turn out just like their Ate Tina. =) |
 | Hey that's my cousin who just posted before me...Hi Tin!! Anyway, I am a single mother and my son has not seen his father since 2002. My son is 7 years old now and has no recollection of his father. He knows he has a father but does not remember him even if I show my son a picture. I believe that despite the "lack" of a paternal figure, children will grow up ok. Everyone loves you, that's for sure. Your mother is crazy about you right? Just hang in there...just remember that you are loved. Take care. PS: I'm sure you wont remember me but you used to ride in MPC. We had the same teacher. I still ride with her...since 1990 i think... but this time I ride under Riding for the Disabled. |
 | felicidades! im proud of you, like everybody said nkakaiyak. goodluck and always remember that wer always here for you! |
 | it's evident from reading all of these replies that you are well loved and cared for. this is also telling of what an exceptional individual you are to have so many people support you and place you under such high regards.
a friend of mine who just under went a similar situation once said to me that, "time doesn't heal...it's what you do with that time."
good luck and i wish you the very best.
~*good times*~
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 | hi kace! wala akong masabi kundi BOW! what a beautiful person inside & out! you don't know me but i'm a big fan of your mom & YOU! just wanted to be your fan friend. (hope you don't mind) May God continue to bless you, guide, protect & give you strength coz life can be tough sometimes but Life is Good too. stay as you are! by the way, I'm staying here in Germany. Paris is only 4 hrs away from us (been to Paris twice) Take Care! God bless always! |
 | What you wrote about your mom is sooooooooooooooooo touching! I hope to grow up to be a fine lady like you! :)) |
 | Mademoisselle, as you can see the voyeurs can't stay put and leave you alone- they want to be friends with you, they want to be linked one way or another and have turned themselves into fawning sycophants.
I find some of the posts like of a mother, Nora, to be really pathetic and senseless. What is preventing her to appreciate her children the same way your mother has said of you? Instead, she is still wishing? Parang mali yata ang advocation niya.
I hate to spoil this for non-related posters, but since they have invaded, thus warrant my permission to join. You folks should have had the discretion to let girl be. Well now, I do hope KC will shut this down or make it really amongst friends. I would not mind not having the privilege anymore to take a peek at her charmed life but I would rather not waste her in believing in herself that she is profound. -'Di pa neng! While her posts are candid and revealing of a zest for the things normal kids enjoy e.g. good company, shoes, clothes, quirky people. God forbid that she is the gold standard. (Of humility, pwede pa) The downside nga naman of being a media influence, people will believe everything you do and/ or say.
Miss, you are lucky to have a great education, intelligent parents and you are one of the few who can raise the bar of sophistication. You are by no means profound, yet. I beg you not to believe them (with the exception of your mother's pride). I hope you will continue to sharpen your mind and not settle for mediocrity.
Imbibe Hugo, Sartre, Nin, Zola, Flaubert, Baudelaire, Rimbaud...push, push, push for excellence.
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| hi, kace...your such a wonderful daughter...a wonderful lady, infact...:-) greatness is just there, beneath that 'hill'...
i'd like to reply to the person who posted with the name MULTIPLIERZ...
(i hope this is okay kace...:-)
I respect whatever your perception is on this blogging, albeit this observation that there is nothing wrong here and this is a healthy one; this observation encompasses the ethics of blogging vis-à-vis the freedom of expression.
and to help you write properly next time, there is no such word as ‘advocation.’
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| people may like it or not(what is written here)mahalaga you speak from your heart.I hope you'll have a grand time in Sanfo w/ur papa.i wish we could see each other. |
 | She chose to share,
We chose to care.
She gives good vibes
There’s no room for gripes.
She shines in the limelight
We’re not blinded by her light
She’s human, she evolves
She creates, she gets involve.
How dare people dictate the life one lives?
How easy to define the road one leads
How foul one brands another’s feelings?
When one is inspired do you show your grief?
Is it only your thoughts you choose to believe?
I am one in celebrating this lady’s piece
To breakaway from a struggle is such a feat
One can never dampen the spirit of the brave
We can only wonder at the rising of that flame
She lives her life.
We lead separate lives
We’ve seen her grow since she was born
She has to know we’ll cheer her on.
Not only she’s loved for being her mother’s child
She’s loved for what she is & what she chooses to become.
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 | Thanks to Gik otherwise I would have missed reading this. You have grown to be such a beautiful woman both inside and out...and yeah I agree life is to short to be angry all the time...YOU are someone worth being proud of...teka napapaiyak na ko! |
 | shery wrote on Aug 10, '06, edited on Aug 10, '06 Hi KC.. i chance upon this site..hope you dont mind me commenting... I use to be a member of your kcconcepcion.com site(still have contact with some of them).. way back when.. hehehe... all i have to say is...how LUCKY your mom is to have a daughter like YOU... someone whose level headed, smart, talented and most of all a GOD FEARING person and with a GOOD and LOVING HEART. Any mother would be sooooooooo super PROUD. Here's to many many more plays and more successsssss to any endeavor you take on... take care and GOD BLESS YOU always. have fun with your dad and stepmom...oh and your baby sisters are the cutestttttttttttttt!!! frankie is just growing up to be such a fashionista!=) and miel.. she's just sooooooooooo cute! =) |
| When you Google KC Concepcion, this blog is about 7th on the list. With the release of her latest ad, the public curiosity heightened and found her whereabouts in the web.
There are glaring strangers who post comments and "in-your-face" revealing that they don't personally know the owner of this blog. And as you may observe, she politely requests deletion and have not made this private in so far. This is not about freedom of speech. Kowtowing to her thoughts is not necessary. Besides, people are just echoing what every one else is saying. Give me a break, can you at least say it in a foreign language to make it interesting?!
While it is true that access is free for all, people should be cognizant of limitations. We like this celebrity and the best thing we could do for her is respect her space.
I'll make a deal with you fellow strangers, if you keep posting, I'll continue to appear (in multiplied identities) and be troublesome until "somebody" leaves this place. Think very well of the consequences.
This is my advocation : )
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 | popover wrote on Aug 10, '06, edited on Aug 10, '06 The beauty of Multiply is that it allows one to choose whether to make a message or photo public or private. A public posting implictly welcomes public response.
I happen to appreciate and be entertained by KC's blogs, as with the blogs of others (non-celebrities included!) who choose to express themselves in a public forum such as this one. I would not be surprised if KC and all those bloggers who choose to make their thoughts public are likewise entertained by receiving responses (respectful ones, of course). There is nothing wrong with sharing one's thoughts in a creative and articulate way and perhaps even striking the mind of another and eliciting a response! Heck, it's just fun to hear about how other people in this big world live and think. In any language, grammatical errors and all.
Alors, merci, grazie, salamat, e arigatoo a tous ceux qui m'amusent bien avec leurs histoires et leurs avis! Ca rend la vie plus interessante... |
Comment deleted at the request of the author.  | wow! im so touched.. you inspire me more than you'll ever kno kc..
xoxo |
Comment deleted at the request of the author.  | Oh well, bonne chance, hope things work out with you and your dad |
Comment deleted at the request of the author.  | Hi, what you wrote and how you wrote it is EXACTLY the way I would have put it. :-) Here's to a peaceful "cyber" co-existence! |
Comment deleted at the request of the author.  | dneer wrote on Aug 14, '06 Hi Kaycee...What you wrote was soooo touching!!!....This is the first time you let the public know your true feelings about the situation & experience you've been though...I read lots of articles about you but this one is different...A revelation, indeed!!...So brave of you to share your inner thoughts regarding your personal life..I guess, this must be painful...I admire you for that....Maybe, the reason why you wrote this is you want to be an inspiration & to set a good example to people who share the same experience such as yours...You want to let us know that you're ready to face the initial process of resolving unfinished business..You also want to give credit where credit is due, no matter what happens....Nothing changes at all! You want to say how grateful you are to the person who love you the most...Ya, the public or everyone knows who has the most influence in your life, who has contributed the most in making the person you have become..For that, I say thank you to your mom!!....Love is expressed in actions not just in words, and that's what your everdearest mother has shown to you since day one...Your dad (not your "papa') also treated you like his own daughter, not just just a step-daughter...And you're grateful for that too....The love & care you have from your family is something that you cherish for the rest of your life...You are so blessed, girl!.. Thank God for that!!!! |
Comment deleted at the request of the author.  | you're a blessing and an inspiration..
keep it up... |
| 'Sure, I love my father and my step-father I love him a lot, but it is my mother who is worth more than anything. It is she, and not a man, who will walk me down the aisle for my wedding march.'
nice words kc..your mom must be really proud of you
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Comment deleted at the request of the author.  | you're a real gem. go girl. all the best! |
 | this is TABETCH!
my gas! with your mom and you, i go crazy laughing, and then i read your post, i cry huhuhu , and then i see our pics in the phcare shoot, i'd laugh again! i was so surprised to see my "autistic" pics here nyehehehehe nakakatawa, super fun to work with you and atche! si yaya luring na lang di ko nakakawork :) kasi baka magkagustuhan sila ni GRANNY DEE!
hey ate KC, our stuff for ph was great, a lot of people commenting! super ganda ka dun, esp the billboards in EDSA. next shoot natin iisip naman ako ng baging gimik, you wont JUMP na, maybe crawl habang naka-patadyong hehehe.
Atche, let's work soon... as in soooooooon! |
 | oi grabe, may talent ka nga sa pagsusulat. i really like reading your blogs. they're interesting. u should write a book. the simply complicated life of kace, how to be a daughter of a mega star, livin la vida france or something that WE- ladies can relate to. ur a good role model at super totoong tao. i was touched by your blog. i wish ma appreciate din ng anak ko ginagawa ko for him. (i'm a single mommy.he's 3 years old and we've been apart for 6 months now, d2 ko LA while he's in P.i. i miss him so much.) basta kace stay cool.ayt?
lovelots,
babes |
 | so touching and true. That is why I admire your mom the most. I could not imagine how to raise a child by his or her own, but you're mom did really a good job raising you. As what they said (newspapers, media,etc.) u r really far from other showbiz kids when it comes to decency, discipline and that kind of principle you have. Thumps up to you and your mom! I always follow interviews about your mom and I could really feel how she loves you very much, you may have kid sisters now but you really feel how she loves you and as she said in one of her interviews that you were together for a long time until she met your dad, it's just been the two of you and how it breaks her heart everytime she leaves you and have to work for a living. That's very brave. Imagine those in the PI that leaves they family just to seek a better fortune overseas for their families and sometimes they are being abuse pa. Life is tough sometimes but still life is beautiful if only people know how to love and give love.
Your mom also said that it's you and her against the world, whatever problems come your way. Hmmmmmm, how sweet and loving, is it?
Remember, GOD is good all the time!
me again, sensya na ha medyo senti ata ako :) |
 | ur family & friends must be very proud of you :D ur blog is so true.
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 | Bebe!
If I were asked to write something about the eventuality of things with my Father and my Family and my Mom..... I can just refer them to this post. Verbatim.
Bravo to our Mom's walking us down the aisle.
: ) Take care my darling kachuchai. Are you home yet? Let's please see each other this time. |
 | Hi, KC.like my previous comments. I agree with you totally. I'm sure you mom is very very proud of you. she raised you right girl. your pops should be greatful that your mom raised such a wonderful and very kind girl like you. You know you're not like other rich kids, na walang ginawa kundi magbigay ng grief to their parents. I commend you.... |
 | Our experiences in life mold us to who we are today. You've grown to be a beautiful person inside and out. There should be no regrets, just lessons learned. I'm sure your loved-ones are very proud of you. Keep up the good work and enjoy life to the fullest! Godspeed! :)
P.S. I love the picture. :) |
Comment deleted at the request of the author. Comment deleted at the request of the author.  | jnica wrote on Aug 26, '06 You're a lucky girl KC! You have two Dads, who for sure, love you dearly... I dont have any... You are a wise woman! You have thoughts are really full wisdom. Indeed, your mom is such a wonderful mother, Godly and everything. Nice to hear that you've enjoyed your stay in your father's place in San Francisco. :) Take care! God bless! |
 | That's so brave of you gurl! Good call!
- Jen (www.sexynomad.i.ph) |
 | same thing happened to me ..... but it didnt stop me for believing that theres a reason & a purpose for me ..... im not saying that i am strong.... i just know that being on his side i will never go wrong again....
"GOD will keep you strong to the end,so that you will be blameless on the day of our lord jesus christ.
I corinthians 1:8
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 | tarchie wrote on Aug 28, '06, edited on Aug 28, '06 hey mega! don't u worry about it...ur not alone in d world. my Mom sometimes ring me back instead of txting me kasi she doesn't understand some of d txt lingo.
and kc ur such a lucky lady. u have a great Mom...there are only a few of them in d world--
---xcx--- |
 | Hi, everyone we do all have unfinished bussiness to process.
And it is through God in his own time.
May God Bless us all. |
 | ^_^ sobra nakakatouch iyong sinulat mo... your mom's really proud of you... ^_^ you're really beautiful inside and out ^_^ sana maraming kagaya mo! heheh |
 | wait lang......cry muna ko |
 | kace, life is just so short... well that the heck he's still your dad di ba? if it wansn't for him u wouldnt be here now...god never allowed u not to have a dad coz he gave u a step dad who loves u so much..tama life is so short to be angry all the time... enjoy your life to the fullest i know your dad lves u so much.. nevermind of the intrigas.. pucker up and smile =) god bless u!! |
 | I admire your courage to open up yourself this way - thanks for sharing this with us. xox |
| I admire your courage to open up yourself this way - thanks for sharing this with us. xox |
| i so love sharon..and now kc..sorry, im really a fan of mega.. |
 | aipye wrote on Sep 7, '06 we have the same story.. only i got 3 dads.. hehe.. and 2 step sisters.. long story.. i don't even remember when i last saw my dad.. 10 or more years i think..i'm not even sure..it's hard to forgive him.. i dunno..
bottom line, my mom means the world to me too... i hope she knows that.. |
 | " To shame a parent is to shame a child," I don't know who said this but, you are so lucky that your mother to have had this wisdom. And this wisdom is one of the reasons why you are such a beautiful person inside and out. |
 | ... everyone has its own bright and dark moments in life.. but kahit na ganun yun, may karapatan parin tayong maging masaya.. if you feel kace that it would make you more happy and complete as a person to be with your dad all the time, then go.. nobody has the right place to stop you.. and i am so happy for you coz you really still give value to your biological dad.. unlike sa iba, kinasusuklaman nila ang mga taong nagkasala o nasaktan sila.. to let them know, walang mangyayari kung patuloy parin nating gunitain ang mga masasakit na alaala.. y dont we look the happiest moment or the good side of what happen? remember, kht naging ganun man ang relationship ng parents natin, pero kung hindi dahil sa kanila wala rin tayo sa mundo.. lets move on.. as what kc have said,
"Sure, I have my own life to live, my own name to build, and my own burdens to worry about.
But someone's gotta begin the process of resolving unfinished business.
Life is just too damn short to be so angry all the time.
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hence, let us put love and forgiveness in our heart. yes, i know hindi ganun kadali ang tanggapin ang katotohanan.. pero there's 3 words sorround it: PAST IS PAST! hehe... so let us accept the truth.. ok? for, kace... im so proud of you! kahit ganun pa man reactions ng mga tao pero, naging matapang ka parin para harapin ang katotohanan sa pamilya mo.. i wish you a better life and good family.. you're so lucky having sen kiko as step dad.. he loves you like his own daughter.. congratulations! |
 | well for me its not a big deal to see your father after 10 long years....eh daddy mo naman yun eh u huv a right to see him and be with him for maybe a shortest time dibah...i think u had fun when u r in san francisco with him...i just wish that i can see the photos of you and your dad together...well i saw it in tv...KC you're beautiful talented smart i wish you the best gurl |
 | surou wrote on Oct 2, '06 you've been an inspiration! and we love you more for that! mwah- |
 | Maybe you'll get to read this, maybe you wont. But I think you are a brave girl and handling 'everything' well by just well sharing yourself to a lot of people who will always be curious via this blog. At least this blog tries to stop speculations bec. its straight from you. God be with you and your family! Live well, live fully, life is lived once. People may expect a lot of things but do what you want to do - never mind what people think (though I think your doing just that!). You're doing ok, girl. Im a 32-yr old single/engaged lady who lived my life well and will still continue to love living life even after the engagement hahaha... |
| to multiplierz - just let it be. simple joys are pure pleasures. im sure, all, means well. a good life to you. |
 | awwww nkaka-touch nman..dat was so beautiful!!! i got all teary =(
wow..buti pa mommy mo kc marunong mgcomputer haha my mom (wat tita shawie sed) is computer tanga! hahaha..nah i love her!!
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 | well, you're still lucky to have 4 parents who love u dearly. we're glad that you've reconnected with your real dad. no matter what you do, he is still your father! kung di pa dahil sa kanya, wala ka sa mundong ito.
you should be proud of your dad especially that we heard news about him graduating college in the US as an honor student.that is quite an achievement. not all showbiz personalities have the brains like your parents'. gabby must be proud of you too. We wish you the best! God bless you all and your family! |
 | hi kc!
ive been your fan even before the little mermaid. hehehe. i also did a review of it. you even signed my copy thank you! (and, nga pala, i gave you the draft! it was during your modeling gig in U.P college of architecture!hehe).
nabasa ko lang talaga yung blog mo sa yes mag and i can't help but imagine the things you and your dad felt during that moment. that "whoa..at last..it's my dad! / my daughter!..wow" moment.
one of the paragraphs which made me smile (and inspired as well) : "...kilala kasi bored lang ako. tapos, bigla siyang dumating. tapos nag-smile sya. wala, tumalon-talon na ako. niyakap ko sya. umiyak na ako, umiyak na din sya." :-)
nakakatuwa lang on how you solved your unfinished business. galing. inspiring.
i will try to visit your blog regularly. as a "writer" (, "jologs" na writer lang kasi haha) nakakatuwa din basahin kung pano ka sumulat. you certainly can write!
hope you can add me up to your contacts! you take care idol! ;-)
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 | Yes you're right KC. LIFE is too short AND TOO VALUABLE to be angry. That's a good attitude. Pinoy na pinoy talaga . :)
But why no pics with your dad here? Can I see? pretty pleaseeeee .
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| Yah, ang guapo talaga ng papa mo kace...kamukhang kamukha mo...no wonder maganda ka rin....maganda rin mommy shawie mo...ok rin sana kung nagmana ka sa kanya...:)
curious lang, meron ka bang ibang qualities (aside from physical) nakuha from your papa?
God bless! |
 | si kc....? si gabby yan nagdamit babae lang saka nagpahaba ng buhok. |
| wag ka na malungkot, you live a full life naman, mayaman kayo, nag-aral ka sa mga best schools here at sa france gosh, sosing-sosi, nanay mo megastar, papa mo Ayyy FAFAAAAA, step father mo senator, mga taong nakapaligid sayo puro nagmamahal sayo, saka hindi ka naman napabayaan habang lumalaki ka. tapos ngaun ang ganda ganda mo na!!! dati taba taba mo ngaun seksi seksi mo na. lahat ng lalaki naglalaway na sayo. haha so no need to get angry or get sad nandito naman ako para sayo. hahahaha feeling close nako. nweis dba may pic kayo ng Dad mo dito sa site mo? parang wala na ata... well ingat ka, hope ill meet u sometime in the near future. papa-autograph ako. <3<3<3 |
 | *sigh*
you inspire me much kace.
i'm speechless.
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 | i've read the article in yesmagazine about your reunion with your dad. i'm gonna send the same mag to my niece who is now based in UK with her mom & stepfather. she has long been wanting to be reconnected with her biological dad much to her mom's chagrin. i'll send the mag so that her mom can read it & understand one's need to reconcile with the past in order to move on with the future. thanks for sharing your experience. many can actually learn a lot from it. |
 | sheenalim wrote on Nov 18, '06, edited on Nov 21, '06 just happen to stumble on this blog and I felt moved by it...10 long years? wow.. bout same time I met ur dad during a family funeral... but yeah, i agree that life's too short to be angry... (based on experience).. it's hard to live on "what ifs"... needless to say cheers to you! ur lucky to have a mom like urs. ;) |
 | rhyb wrote on Jan 7, '07, edited on Jan 11, '07 ey, just a note.. kace, i know sometime people are so kulit and really wanted to see you and hoping na maging friends mo, and I'm glad you have this site, it helps, a lot of people find their happiness by just a glance of you and know some of your interests, you may not know it, its to inspire them...actually napadaan lang ako and reading their replies to your posts nakita ko how this site put some smile in their lives...you touched lives kace without knowing it...youre a great person, and youre a bleSsing to some, to your family, friends, relatives and fans... sana di mo ipagkait sa kanila ang kaligayahan na masilayan ka through this...GOOD LUCK kace...
"life is not just about making ourselves happy its also about making others happy" |
 | hi kc, ur d 1 i dream to be my friend and i knw it will never be happen in real life.. coz ur in pedestal while im ordinary one. but im happy even here feeling ko were friends na..i will always be ur die hard fan for life. |
 | babicci wrote on Jan 20, '07, edited on Jan 20, '07 i've read the article regarding your meeting with your dad, you wanna know the truth kc , i think you're father doesn't give a damn about you, his excuse that he have some letters for you that he kept or sent to his personal email he's full of s***,he knows where to contact or get in touch with you, tell him go & tell his stories to the marines , or give him 20Cents & talk to someone who cares.... |
 | Kace, waz that really your mom? yung stinkerbell? gosh, haba naman ng comment, hehehehe, halos dalwang blog entries bawat isa dun ah! Cheers!!!! |
 | cheanrah wrote on Mar 28, '07, edited on Mar 28, '07 hi cassandra... just droppin' by to see other blogs... anyway, tell your dad that the food in your resto (Lamesa Grill) is superb! my family always go and eat there since it's near sa school ko,,,hahaha... it's true! seriously, the food tastes very good and the price is affordable...halos kilala na nga kami ng staff dun, especially my dad, coz almost every day dun kami nagdi-dinner... hehehehe... love the place pa kc it's very nature ang dating... tke care!!! |
 | For those of us who witnessed and lived through your parent's relationship and derelationship, we've often wondered what would become of you. I remember seeing you at Megamall learning ot iceskate with your stepdad. I thought that your family is very blessed in many beautiful ways. It is wonderful to read how positive you are of the future. And I see, that you have fallen into blogging as an outlet like many of us who miss home or perhaps what was once home. |
 | hope its ok that i borrowed the pic in this entry.. :-) |
 | ynra wrote on Jun 27, '07 "Life is just too damn short to be so angry all the time."
--- kaka-guilty naman...hayyy... miss ko na bahay namin.. |
 | I can relate to the i-have-my-own-life-to-live-and-make part.
We don't know each other, but I met your mom several times. But what I really remember is when my Grandfather was a guest on your mom's show, and we were there too. I can't remember why we were there, but i was really overwhelmed because a got a kiss on the cheek from the only and only mega star! :) haha ;) i think you were even there during that time! you were about to sing ata! hehe. i have another story for you, but not here, too public! hehe
I can relate to what you're saying. I just saw my dad last Christmas. 11 years since the last time we actually spent time together. good thing he went home. but in my case, it was my grandparents who took care of me. but yeah, my mom had to go through hell and come back to be able to give me normal and decent life. |
 | hi kc...im reading your blogs here and i really appreciate u.can u be my friend? |
 | ylag wrote on Aug 17, '07 hi po! i just want to say that i think ur so beautiful... inside and out...
God Bless u and ur family!!! love u kc... |
 | hi kace!i'm new here..same here.my dad left when i was in grade1.i'm 22 y/o now.i have 1 sis and 2 bros.xa lhat bumuhay samin!the best mga mothers natin!salute!hehe..hoping to be your friend.. |
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 | chey2506 wrote on Oct 19, '07, edited on Oct 19, '07 GOD bless you KC!!! I just stumbled on your site and lo and behold, didn't realize it's already 19:17!!! I was here since 15:30. You are an amazing person, indeed! Beauty, wit and humility personified. Keep it up and please don't change. Speaking of dads, I have forgiven my own biological dad and i love him and i love my stepfather, too! Life is so good to be angry or to keep grudges inside. |
 | i love this entry.. we have the same situation..very similar.. dad left and married another, mom found new love, now my stepdad.. and he's great as ur stepdad.. now it's been 12yrs.. dad tried to reach us.. we are textin, but never talked about meeting.. like i am not yet ready to resolve any unfinished business with him.. i still need enough guts.. =p but this entry inspires me.. =p thanks a lot! |
 | aww.. i love the post.uber nakakaiyak.. |
 | i saw ur dad here in one of the malls in the bay area when you were like 2 yrs. old i didnt even bother to check who he's with at that time( none of my business anyways)but...im not gonna kiss ass to you or anything like that,
bottom line thou KC,you grew up a very strong and intelligent woman.you actually look more like your dad. and everyone looks up to you .and wether you like it or not, you got BOTH of them to be thankful for.and when you forgive makes you that BEAUTIFUL princess.
and i love your mom dearly, she's awesome! |
 | craces wrote on Feb 13, '08, edited on Feb 13, '08 wow....
nabasa ko to, sobrang na-touch ako....
sarap basahin....sure...=)
nakaka-touch! |
 | Medyo, huling-huli na ko sa pagbibigay ng comments, Natouch din ako, and na appreciate ko ang Mom, she have to work overseas just to make sure we have proper education. Coz she raise me up so I can stand on mountain.
To Ate Shawie, Bravo!! Saludo rin ako sa mga single Mom...
And when I think of my father who left us. I just have to Remember
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change
the courage to do the things I can and
the wisdom to know the difference. |
 | ****CLAP**** 1000X
very well said! |
 | you are such a beautiful person inside and out, i cannot truly comprehend how a person like you can think of life in the most positive ways. thanks also for sharing your most personal thoughts, those coming from the deepest corners of your heart. i love this post kc :) mabuhay ka! |
 | i love you KC with all my heart... you're one of a kind... mwaaaah |
 | YOUR UNIVERSE
Tell me something
When the rain falls on your face
How do you quickly replace
It with
A golden summer smile?
Tell me something
When I'm feelin' tired and afraid
How do you know just what to say
To make
Everything alright?
chorus:
I don't think that you even realize
The joy you make me feel when I'm inside
Your universe
You hold me like I'm the one who's precious
I hate to break it to you but its just
The other way around
You can thank your stars all you want but
I'll always be the lucky one
Tell me something
When I'm 'bout to lose control
How do you patiently hold
My hand
And gently calm me down?
Tell me something
When you sing and when you laugh
Why do I always photograph
My heart
Flyin way above the clouds?
Tags: rico blanco, lyrics |
 | good luck to you ur such have a goodheart n i know u deserve all the good things that came in your life... |
 | Pareho pala tayo hindi ko rin po nakita ang dad ko for more than 10 years pero magkasama na kami ngayon.. May konting common tayo pagdating sa family kaso mas worst pa yong sakin ehh.. Mga bagay na siguro maiintindihan mo pero medyo private para i post ko d2..:) |
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